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[quote=Anonymous]10:37 It's pretty much automatically 50/50 without a written agreement, a post-nup or pre-nup, because having one parent with fewer work commitments benefits the family. Unless you've got a nanny and help and he's off playing golf. But still, the point holds. OP seems open to 50-50, she doesn't want him getting more than half.

I agree with 10:37 here. OP do not hit your husband with a letter from a lawyer. That is colder than cold and very provocative. You've got young children, you are going to be co-parenting for years. Also, perhaps he still loves you. You can't know what's in another person's heart, even your husband's. Anyway, if he's been dismissing your declarations, have a talk and then send the letter a few days letter. At least give him fair warning.

And be careful not to drop a fortune on legal fees. Lawyers love folks like you with disposable incomes. Ideally, when the dust has settled make a list of your disputes and negotiate as much as possible with your husband. $425 an hour goes fast.

Good luck.

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