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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Got pregnant in early 30s almost 5 years ago. We had been together for quite a few years prior but were actually broken up at the time. I told him he could be involved or not. He choose to be involved, we've been together since.

Sometimes it is really hard. I dont think we are "meant" for each other but we both want to make it work, which IMO is 75% of the battle in a relationship. We have been through a lot in 10 years more than some marriages go through in 20 or 30 years. I dont necessarily want to be with someone else- truly I would rather not be in a committed relationship at all. It is easier financially to stay together and we genuinely have good times together. I dont know what will be left of our relationships when our child is older though but I dont think that is a problem specific to, or arising  from, our relationship origin. [/quote]

You've reduced marriages greater than 20 and 30 years as less than to your 10 year “don’t know what will be left once child is older” fling with “baby daddy.”  [/quote]

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