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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I have a pretty good relationship. We contribute equally (based on our own system) to household chores and taking care of the kids. We both have demanding jobs. Sometimes, when I have to travel for work or other reasons, I feel like I have to make it up to him because he was manning the ship by himself. So I’ll usually plan a nice dinner out or some other activity. I recently told a friend this and she said it all seemed so transactional. Its his duty as a father/husband to step up like this on occasion—- there’s no need to make it up to him or vice versa. I obviously don’t agree with her that this seems transactional. I just want to show appreciation. Am I right?[/quote]
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