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[quote=Anonymous]My parents are in California too. Sometimes visits are just me and DS, DH stays home to work. Sometimes we all 3 go. Sometimes they join us on our family vacation. Sometimes my mom comes and stays with us. Sometimes both parents come. Sometimes we plan a vacation that can have a stopover in California (like going to hawaii but having a "layover" in LA for a few days on the way out). Sometimes if I know DH will be traveling for a week for work I'll ask my mom to come stay with us that week to help to school drop offs. You will find your balance. You aren't committing to monthly trips for eternity. Figure out what works for the remainder of this year, and then worry about 2023 when we get there.[/quote]
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