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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I generally let my kids dictate their interest, or lack thereof, in their extracurriculars.[b] Swimming being an exception - it was a must until they were competent enough swimmers that water safety was no longer a concern[/b]. My oldest didn’t love it so we stopped then, the youngest is enjoying it so we keep going. [/quote] 100% this. I am all for my kids picking their own activities, but swimming lessons are non-negotiable. We belong to a swim club during the summers and travel to the beach a lot, so they need to be safe in the water. My youngest is generally stubborn so said he wouldn't do swim lessons. Too bad. I signed him up for MoCo lessons where parents have to leave the pool deck and guess what? He loved it. Loved his teacher, made friends in class, and now swims very well. Just push her into it, but find lessons where you are not involved. If you are there hovering, she is going to look to you and whine. Be out of sight, out of mind.[/quote]
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