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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A man I’m dating recently told me (after four dates FYI), how much he really likes me and how he’s always thinking about me.  Great!  But then he said something like how he hopes we will work out.  Isn’t it too soon for someone to be saying this?  Is this insecurity?  It kind of gave me a stop in my tracks, even though I like him very much.[/quote]It is too soon for you.  Perfect time for some other woman and he's not insecure.  I've personally rejected every guy who was "playing hard to get", trying hard not to let on how much he likes me, etc.  Because there was always another guy saying "I'm crazy about you, etc" these Rules of Fearing Becoming the Admirer vs Admiree guys didn't stand a chance.  Stop counting date numbers, minutes between text backs, etc. and appreciate this man or don't waste any more of his time.  Instead find every DIVORCED relationship author (The Rules/Code, Men are from Mars, etc), and date a man more into manipulation than you being yourself.  Repeat, the authors are ALL DIVORCED.  Guys of mothers who are divorced 4+ times are PERFECT for you--they definitely will have a deeply insecure way of avoiding "too soon" talks.[/quote]

Thanks for the advice.  I get what you’re saying.  But I’ve found in the past that men that also say that were just “love bombing.”  Just trying to weed out the dishonest ones.[/quote]

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