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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would prepare myself that he may be super flighty/married/a tinder swindler but it s reasonable to be low key and give him another chance (one only) if you like him, as long as you go in knowing there’s a 15% chance he is absolutely FOS. [/quote]

OP: so what would you text back? Something like, "Hey I understand. Hope all worked out." ?[/quote]

I would just text the "Hope all worked out" and not the "Hey I understand." I don't care how busy he is, he's not too busy to send a two second text saying that he won't be able to do the plans you had.

The problem is it's hard to say *that* without sounding like a lunatic - like, we're not allowed to get mad early in a relationship because only crazy people are mad when someone totally flakes on them after you've had sex for the first time. (Argh.) But yeah, I would want to make sure that it's established that his work emergency doesn't mean you're left hanging.

Do you want to see him again? It takes time to build trust after getting out of a bad relationship. If you think he's worth it, do you feel comfortable telling him that you've had this previous experience, and it's given you a bit of a feather trigger now - and that you just need some extra care wrt plans and what not because of that?
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