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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. OP, this is a bad sign. Sounds like [b]you had solid plans [/b]and he didn’t have the courtesy to provide notice (if he was busy he would’ve seen a cancel coming…….) and was [b]super casual about it when he did[/b], offering “thoughts of you” during the game? This is giving me [b]player vibes,[/b] and I’d drop him if I were you. It probably won’t get better but if you want to find out, don’t respond to his text and see what he does. If he asks what’s up, tell him why you went MIA. His response to that will let you know if he’s worth another second of your time. [/quote]

I agree with this.  Not because I'm needy and requires so much assurance but because it takes literally 4 seconds to text the OP back at 1:05 pm yesterday -- moments after she texted --  and say "swamped, sorry, blah blah ..."    Maybe 3 seconds?

And when people just can't bring themselves to expend 3 seconds of energy in a TIMELY way, that's not a good sign.

When people show you who they are, believe them. [/quote]

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