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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. OP, this is a bad sign. Sounds like you had solid plans and he didn’t have the courtesy to provide notice (if he was busy he would’ve seen a cancel coming…….) and was super casual about it when he did, offering “thoughts of you” during the game? This is giving me player vibes, and I’d drop him if I were you. It probably won’t get better but if you want to find out, don’t respond to his text and see what he does. If he asks what’s up, tell him why you went MIA. His response to that will let you know if he’s worth another second of your time. [/quote]

OP: I guess this is why I'm confused. I obviously don't want to be taken advantage of. But want to be understanding if it's legit/was unavoidable.[/quote]

Here's the good news; you don't have to have a crystal ball. :) I'd text back what you mentioned and let him take it from there. He will declare himself eventually.

If you're just out of a relationship with a toxic person (and I'm sorry for that experience), use what you learned going forward. You got a wonky vibe from this guy about this particular issue. OK. See how it plays out going forward. One time is a one-off. Twice is warning. Three times is pattern and you move on.

Remember to stay busy and communicate clearly. Both of these help.[/quote]

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