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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My BPD mom also became much worse as she got older. My dad is alive, but she divorced him when I was in college. [b]He turned into a happy man[/b]. She turned into a monster, and I do think it's because she was used to taking it out on my dad and changed to taking it out on my siblings and me. She wss terrible during our child/teen years, but she also always had someone she was obsessive about, a romantic interest that consumed her energy unless she was entirely tired/[b]pissed. [/b] She wrongly betted on getting a better man than my dad. She has no one but my siblings and her grandchildren to abuse now. Excepting me and mine.[/quote] Funny you mention this, when dad was ill and mom was angry with him 24-7, we finally got a nurse for him and encouraged her to leave the house more. We also found a place a senior day center for him. He was so much happier away from her. I would definitely say mine has turned into a monster. Funny you use the word "pissed." If I had a dollar for every time my mom declared she is "pissed" or "in a snit" I would be Jeff Bezos. She has wasted to majority of her life either in a state of anger or anxiety, mostly anger.[/quote]
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