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[quote=Anonymous]Well at least I know long and short term memory are in tact. My lovely elderly mother seems to have kept a mental list of any weak spot I have since childhood and she tries desperately to hit each one hoping to get a reaction. Thanks to therapy she does not get anything out of me. Then she complains about friends who have dumped her or who are drifting away. It's funny because even as a kid when friendships turned unhealthy I figured out to drift and let the relationship go. She would berate me and tell me what a terrible person I was for not keeping every friendship. The friendships she still has she does not value and she badmouths and complains about them all.the.time. I do not bad mouth friends. I value them. If it's not a good relationship I let it go, I don't obsess. It's like she doesn't even know what friendship is and every "relationship" in her life must have conflict.[/quote]
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