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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Was the rough patch in your marriage caused by the two little kids? If you felt underwater managing two little kids, why do
you think adding a new baby into the mix when you’re older and more tired and still working with no family to help would be easier than last time? In all likelihood it would be like dropping a bomb in your life, cause that’s what new babies do. I wants third as well, but I know I can’t handle it. And I’m sad about that. Really sad. But I recognize that the sadness is going to be there whether I have one baby or 5. It’s your biology talking largely, and at some point you have to ignore it or address the feelings and make peace with it. It’s sad to realize your child bearing years are over. [/quote]

Three would be my max for certain if we went with trying for another. As for the rough patch, that’s a bit too complex to get into here. But no, the kids are our joy. Sleep deprivation certainly doesn’t help, but that wasn’t the cause of our issues.[/quote]

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