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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not a problem. Really. Do not blow up your marriage.[/quote]
RIght? My SIL blew up her marriage, but her DH was no attention to her or the kids but was a good provider and sex was good too.  She started playing these games, they are your kids too, sure, and she started going out during the separation, and drinking and ended up passing out on the grass in some park. And what did they do? Kids had no mom and no dad and ended up a real mess.
She has been with many guys since, married none of them, kids suffered immensely. I am not saying op will do the same. But, how is it being on her own any better for her or the kids? She will have no sex, he sounds attentive and loving to her as well, she will be on her own all the time with kids, in some other house, with maybe a parade of guys her kids will see. Dad will move on, find another woman, have kids with her.. and possibly have learned his lesson be an attentive dad to other kids he has! And op will have to watch and realize that her kids missed out and he is a loving dad to some other ids.
Grow up op, life is not a fairy tale. Make him into a better dad, many women had to do it. And if he can't be, hire a nanny, hire help you can afford, and realize this is "as good as it gets."
You sound so immature, no doubt you will fall for a serious abusive ass who will then become abusive to your kids.[/quote]

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