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My DH is extremely successful in his career and very tender towards me.  We have a great sex life, and he is extremely attentive to my needs/desires.  On the downside, he just can't relate to our relatively young kids (both under 5).  I am worried that this is not going to work out long term.  Any advice?[/quote]

I had the same issue.  He just was not good with especially the youngest kid.  But oh, he knew how to make me feel good, so attentive.  Difficult situation to navigate.[/quote]

Not that difficult, c'mon.  You take care of kids and let him take care of you.   :D [/quote]

No, at some point you give up on him because he doesn't have the bigger picture in mind.  [/quote]
Give up? For what? Do you actually think there is "better' out there? Especially for a divorcee with kids? Sure, there might be, somewhere, over the rainbow!
Don't be a pu**y, many women had to deal with this same issue, it is not ideal, but they managed to make their husbands become awesome fathers. Plan hikes, plan movies, plan outings. Also ask yourself, if you are the type that locked your family in during covid, how is he going to do any of it if you are especially anxious?
if you are not, take off, tell him, I am off to the movies, see you in 3 hours, deal with it. He will deal with it.[/quote]

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