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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have been together for a little bit less than two years. The youngest child of his is a freshman in high school, so we are looking at another 3 1/2 years of this.

Regarding the marriage question, yes we have talked about it and I think that’s what we both want. But this feels too soon. And to be honest, I think a major part of the reason that it feels too soon is because we are not really integrated in each other‘s lives. He might see my kids once or twice a month for dinner, put it into context. I feel like there is a ton of ground that needs to be covered between that point and marriage.[/quote]

3.5 years will be gone before you know it. Also you have the summers more or less together. I would give this more time . . . once the youngest is deep into high school his schedule might change (the kid might be able to drive to him, for example). It's not ideal but nothing is. You need to focus on your kids. Use the time apart for your own projects and goals.

Also, do you not have any flexibility to get together during the week?[/quote]

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