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Reply to "transfer the house title to me or I'm leaving you"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, twice in your post you state that you think you have no intrinsic value. The first time was when you described all of your external attributes: physical description, lack of addictions, good finances. The second time was when you wrote, "I'm thinking that I have no intrinsic value." My point is that you correctly recognize this failure to value yourself is a significant issue. Like other posters, I suggest you need to pursue therapy so that you can begin to value yourself. Your wife leaving you does not mean you have no intrinsic value. What her departure means is that you're now confronting this failure to value yourself instead of external markers. That's good. It's painful - and I'm sorry you're hurting so much - but it's actually a very good thing to recognize and confront a problem. And it's a problem that's eminently fixable since you absolutely do have intrinsic value. You just need to do work to access your emotional capacity for valuing yourself.[/quote]
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