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[quote=Anonymous]is the ultimatum my wife of three years gave me the day she left. I said no. As she walked down the stairs she said "I've waited to long for you to give me what I deserve, I'm strong and independent, I'll go get it myself." Those, along with several other statements are echoing in my head and its really messing with me. She left 11 months ago and the divorce is finalized but I'm still having trouble sleeping and I feel absolutely worthless.

I bought the house before we were married and had 80% equity in it. Leading up to the ultimatum she had been picking fights and I think she was actively doing things to provoke me in an attempt to blow up the marriage.

Logically my brain tells me that objectively I'm at least average (probably better than average) with regard to most items ( 5'11", 175 lbs, full head of hair, I earn at the 92% income percentile), I don't have any addiction (except maybe redbull) and our finances were solid.
I might understand her leaving if there was an valid reason (if I was abusive, cheating, etc.) but that isn't me so she left because I simply wasn't good enough for her. In many ways she, herself, wasn't all that great so If I'm not good enough for her, then what does that say about me?

I've got serious trust issues now because I'm thinking that I have no intrinsic value and apparently I don't even provide enough money to keep someone around either. 
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