Reply to How to find a man who let me shine

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "How to find a man who let me shine"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a successful overachiever. I have been this way my whole life. It’s caused problems in my romantic relationships, because many men have been [b]jealous[/b] or felt inadequate as a result. I do not look down on men who have less money or career accolades than me. I like to have a balanced life with work and fun, and would like to have a partner who’s the same. I also don’t want to have to “play dumb” to keep a man. Are my expectations realistic? If so, how do I begin vetting for and attracting men who have space for a woman like me?[/quote]Notice only UVa students/parents think rapes, deaths, violence, bigotry, embezzlement, abuse, bias, etc is "jealousy" by UVa [i]ALUMNI[/i] who "didn't get in", but [i]actual[/i] Ivy leaguers don't say that?  I too am in the top 1% of many things and don't for a second think my [i]dates[/i] are jealous, although I have faced retaliation from last-to-marry coworkers who failed for 2 years at what I've won awards for.  Why do you go for insecure, petty, jerks?  I have dated and married less accomplished, but I feel I married [b]up[/b] in character, warmth, attachment, etc.  I don't think anyone has played "dumb" since 1982.  What a condescending thought!   Yes, your expectations are realistic.  How?--Stop "vetting" like you are looking for a VP, and start caring and loving like a spouse.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics