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Reply to "I was so naive re marriage, career and kids "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly OP you work too much. I'm the higher earner in my household (by a hair) and neither my DH nor I work that many hours a week, except in rare circumstances - major project deadline, etc. You need to prioritize your marriage and your self-care. You need to have another conversation about admin stuff and lay out the explicit list of things you want him to do and say that's part of being a primary caregiver. Or hire it out (part-time nanny, etc.)[/quote] Op: he does not want to do them because he wants to relax. He has 6-7 hours without kids both days during the weekend. And 3 hours every day of the week when he does not do childcare not chores. How is that not enough! [/quote]
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