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[quote=Anonymous]I took the first year off of DD's life and I wouldn't change a thing about it.  She would literally change before my eyes and that time was invaluable.  Additionally, I had a very hard time coming to terms with trusting anyone else to care for my infant.  She was small and unable to speak for herself and it just drove me crazy that short of putting a camera on her I wouldn't be able to see what was happening with her.

That being said, I really did start to miss work and was looking forward to going back but only after I found a daycare that I trusted with my heart.

Regarding the later years...it really depends on family dynamic.  I am a firm believer that one or both parents needs to have a schedule flexible enough to attend the kids events etc.  In that way I know we're lucky b/c DH works 10 minutes from our home and I have a very flexible job that allows telecommuting and a work life balance (I know this is not common.)

But I say, go with what feels right for your family.  Oh and for us, it made the most sense for me to stay home earlier rather than later financially.

But follow you gut on what's best for you.[/quote]

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