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[quote=Anonymous]I have been seeing this guy for about 2.5 months. He’s been very attentive, open with his feelings, and overall really sweet but last night he threw me off. He called me and said he was going to call me on FaceTime because he hadn’t seen my face in a while and said, “oh and I request that you wear something sexy”. I paused and said, “what? you request” and he chuckled and confirmed with a yes. He then followed up and said if I didn’t want to I didn’t have to. I asked him if he would feel slighted if I didn’t (him feeling slighted or not had no bearing on my choice just curious to see his thought process). He said part of the appeal isn’t the sexy clothes but “you doing what I asked you to do” and that he would feel a little slighted if I didn’t but would understand if I didn’t because it’s still so new. However, if we were in a LTR and I didn’t want to do it because I didn’t think I looked good that day or just didn’t feel like it (his examples) he would definitely feel slighted and turned off because, “if I ask you to do something small like this and you don’t then it makes me wonder what else won’t you do” *squinted his eyes and chuckled*. The last part I don’t think he meant sexually but in general.

We’re both local and although we have fooled around we haven’t slept together.

Im getting back on the market after a very LTR so I'm pretty guarded, but am I’m a little prudish and hypersensitive for thinking this really really off?
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