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[quote=Anonymous]Hello,

I recently re-connected with my ex. We have been seeing each other for a few weeks and it has been great. We have sent each other long letters in the meantime, discussing past issues and what changes we would need, etc... This communication has been cathartic and fulfilling. I asked him to make a decision on whether to truly try again or not. If not, I would just move on. We were going to discuss a decision soon. However, he works FT and is studying for a new masters and is vey busy, which I respect. He also has used that as a reason for sparse  communication. I sent him a message recently asking him to share his final thoughts and actually, if in any case he is on dating apps, swiping while trying to decide, I would like to know because to me that means his head is not in the right place, and I don't want others factoring into deciding if he want to be with me or not. He said he is and that has nothing to do with our relationship and he is just "swiping" and not trying to set up dates, etc... I find that utter BS. But he claimed that is just me being "paranoid" and "jealous". I decided to end it for good. Now I wonder if I overreacted. 
I'd like sane people to share some thoughts. Please, no put downs. I feel low enough already.

-confused[/quote]

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