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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don’t have to unfriends bc you want the relationship to be different. Don’t dismiss it as done. Accept what is and add new friends. Things done have to be either or, good or bad. [/quote] OP. For a while, I did exactly that. But it was too painful for me. I definitely have friendships that have faded and I happily accepted the changes, because I just didn't care that much. This person meant so much to me, and getting her constant texts about her adventures with her new friends, and her travels nearly every month makes me sad. It hurts me that I've suggested several times to get together and she's too busy or it's inconvenient... and then she goes on vacation with another friend instead. I'm not labeling her as bad, and there's nothing inherently immoral in her deciding to demote me to casual text buddy, but that kind of relationship was making me really unhappy, because it was a constant reminder of what I couldn't have. [/quote]
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