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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do not regret it, but I also do not regret trying very, very hard to save the marriage.  My conscience is clear and I can tell the children I really tried.  I am an ACOD and understand the difficulties it will pose for my kids throughout their lives, so I could never be cavalier about my own divorce.

I also do not regret that I waited until the kids were older and I had my ducks in a row financially.  With little kids it would be really, really hard, harder than my specific marriage was at the time.[/quote]

OP here -- I guess that's where I'm going with the question.  If divorce is in the cards, the balance of how much i'm willing to compromise on my happiness with what my kids need and can comprehend.  I hear of women who "wait until kids out of the house" -- but I don't know that I could sign up for that.  That said, like you, I have been and will continue to try very hard to save the marriage.  The problem is that is a two person job and I don't think my husband realizes we are circling the drain.[/quote]

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