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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see lots of threads on DCUM about regrets not divorcing earlier.  What about the other side -- do you regret divorcing your ex?

Since the question always comes from somewhere, here's my situation:  husband had a long term affair that ended when I found out several years ago.  He almost got into another (if not acted on it, but I can't confirm and he denies).  I buried the feelings and moved on in the marriage and its been....fine.  I am now at a place where I'm at least ready to deal with the betrayal and am taking concrete steps to do that, and that could lead me to a place where I want to leave the marriage.  I have to heal me, first, regardless of my relationship status.  But then...???  Lots of big scary things.  We have elementary/middle school aged children.  So, back to my question....do you regret your divorce?[/quote]

I  just recently divorced and am happy both of my kids can stay at home on their own, make their own food, and do chores around the house. No aftercare needed which helps with expenses. The stories I hear about moms with little kids sound just exhausting.

Infidelity is hard because the person is allowing that behavior in their life and it's like an addiction they rationalize. Their go to method when they are either in need of a pick me up or are given an offer by someone.[/quote]

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