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[quote=Anonymous]They are ok with picking up a kid to go eat- not sure about helping anything else- but I have carpools set up.  We did ask them once to wrap their visit around time we needed help with kids and of course, they had spring break plans. MIl was getting eye surgery and we had trip with one child so could have used their help. That pissed me off because they are retired but again, they usually only visit on way to see someone else snd completely  when it’s just convenient for them. 
 I do enjoy them- but now here we start the week exhausted again. It’s so crazy! 
    We had roof collapse over garage so last night the guy fixing came late- so had them pick up daughter at track and take her to eat- told my boys no aunt and uncle tonite- one of you doesn’t feel well and tired from their Sunday nite visit snd other son has AP exam.
   But then the in laws came to drop daughter off and stayed forever so my 17 year old felt like he had to sit with them because we were in garage for an hour with this repair guy.
  Normally the older two would have done their thing and gotten ready for bed. The little one would have been in front of tv show while we dealt with roofer. 
 
 Anyhow it’s just another night they really create hardship. But it’s my husbands freaking fault- he needs to say nicely- “ we can’t hang on school nights/ just too hard for kids to keep their routine”.
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