Reply to DS Wants to Transfer, DH Pushing Back

Forum Index » College and University Discussion

Reply to "DS Wants to Transfer, DH Pushing Back"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]Your husband is right. If you son sticks it out he will find joy in where he is if he wants to. You really need to give something a chance.

Your son is right. When something doesn't feel right you should be courageous to say, this is not working and make a change.

There is no harm in applying. It at least delays the discussion until he either get accepted or not. If not, you save yourself the argument.

As for the "united front" BS. ... Your H and your son have their own relationship and it does not go through you, truthfully you don't care where he goes. So you say, this is between you two, you can't go through me on this one. I support and understand your viewpoint and I support and understand his viewpoint.

Neither answer is wrong and I think many competitive people (men) believe somebody wins and somebody loses in every "disagreement", but the reality, there is not right and wrong... there are just opinions.

Your son will eventually make a decision and it will have consequences... neither good nor bad just different.

[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics