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[quote=Anonymous]I know many people will think I'm crazy.
We already have 3 kids 4 years old and younger (less than 2 years apart).
We've been talking about when to make our final decision on having no more kids - we'll do vasectomy.
We are one of those couples that would have 6 kids if we could! 
But, we have limited resources/support (not to mention the planet's limited resources!).

For those of you with 4 kids, how did you decide to have a 4th?
What we talked about today is me prioritizing my health, getting back in shape (I just turned 33, I'm 5 months postpartum, BFing, and need to lose about 30 lbs), and making a decision in about a year. I wouldn't want to wait much longer than that - it's been my dream to be done having kids by 35!

We're not rich, we're two feds, don't own a home, but we have lots of love, and come from humble origins and large families ourselves.

We seem to have a very different mindset than a lot of people. Like, we keep remarking how siblings are the best gifts we gave our kids because they all play together, even with the 5 month old! They are happiest together and such a joy!

Tell me if you have felt similar things and decided to have a 4th...[/quote]

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