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[quote=Anonymous]OP update. My attorney could not come being it was a last-minute meeting. John and Dave arrived 30 mts early. The counselor  John hired arrived 15 mts early and waited for me in the lobby before she went up to my mom's apt.  I was very impressed with that. We went up together and she was really sweet.   The Counselor set the ground rules and started with asking my mom what she wanted. From there we all took turns without interruption with the same question.  The counselor squashed John’s ideals numerous times using her calculator when he suggested moving my mom for economic reasons.  When John suggested he would spend the nights with my mom if she moved my mom said hell no!  When John tried paraphrasing texts from me the counselor squashed that too. She told him we are not doing this.  She was brilliant and could see right thru my brothers, especially John.  She stopped both of them when they got nonsensical and off subject.   Not once did she have to “scold” me.  I stayed calm and rational.  The outcome was fantastic! The counselor told John and Dave they will have to accept their mother’s decision with who she appointed  POA and everyone needs to be transparent going forward.  We will meet with an elderly estate attorney next and update her Will. I’m meeting John at the bank to be added to the “real” LLCs next week.  My mom stayed tough throughout the meeting and never got emotional.  I huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I’m so relieved. My mom will now not be bullied and manipulated anymore. My husband said it will be interesting to see when John visits her again.  Being that he never did until just recently taking her on memory lane tours.  [/quote]

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