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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think you ask someone to be friends with benefits lol You become that through having sex with a friend without it being a relationship. Do you consider him a friend? It sounds like you'd like casual sex w/o a relationship. In that case, be clear about not wanting a relationship and continue having sex as long as you both want to and are happy with that arrangement.[/quote]

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FWB means that you already had a friendship, and do not want to have dating relationship, but you do want to get laid, so you just do it.  What you are suggesting is something different - just an empty sexual relationship.

BTW, before I was married, I had two woman friends who were both very nice and not bad looking, and I always wish I had tried a FWB thing with one or both.  But it was hard to bring up, because the obvious question I expected is "if you find me attractive, why don't you want to date me," and I did not have a great answer.
It is too late now, but I would be curious to hear how FWB deals get started without offending anybody?  [/quote]

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