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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be extra controlling so he knows he’s making a mistake?

Maybe he has clothing and toiletries he wants to pick up?

Great troll post.[/quote]

OP: This is not a troll post.[b] My girlfriends are telling me that I'm openly being played, and that he probably wants to sleep with 1-2 other people before being exclusive. [/b]They also said that if he was really into me, he wouldn't drag out becoming exclusive. I don't know what to think.[/quote]

So the concern is that he would go back to one of those other women, tell them he's breaking it off with them, and have sex one more time as a send-off?  I can't think of many women who would be into that.

Or is the concern that he would lie to each of those women for one more chance in the sack, then ghost them to come back to be exclusive with you?  Because if he's that kind of guy, I can't imagine why he'd be open with you about needing the week - he could just say "sure let's be exclusive" and keep sleeping with all of you.

Or, are you just upset that you had to initiate the exclusivity talk and he was upfront about the fact that while you guys weren't exclusive, he wasn't exclusive?  Do you feel like he's shoving it in your face, or were you only seeing him so now you feel some type of way about knowing he was a hotter commodity?[/quote]

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