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[quote=Anonymous]I think the way you said it here is good. There’s a double standard and you don’t feel you should have to cater to your in-laws’ expectations. You will enjoy their visits much more if there’s more naturalness to how everyone acts. You need down time and would enjoy it just like he does when your folks visit. There’s no need for you both to sit with his parents all day long. Can they take the kids out somewhere? Can you divide and conquer in terms of spending time with them? You have to just start steeling yourself to deal with their disapproval. They will get used to a new normal where you go off to do laundry, work out, walk the dog, or whatever. [/quote]
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