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[quote=Anonymous]I spent many years considering myself the victim in a similar family dynamic. Then over time I started doing some soul searching, and realized there were ways I had also contributed to problems and brought drama into the family. I’ve since focused on my behavior and what I contribute to a situation. Word of caution: what prompted me to take a close look at myself was realizing my mom always put herself in the victim role, yet she often instigated issues. I’ve also noticed this about therapists: they are giving you advice based on your filtered/biased view. If you are pushing issues onto your brother and want to hash things out to death, he is naturally going to recoil.[/quote]
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