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[quote=Anonymous]You guys need to go into family therapy as soon as possible. This was traumatizing for your kids to overhear, even if they didn't see it. I'm saying this as someone who grew up witnessing violence in the home, married to someone who heard but did not see incidents such as you described. This is something that could really affect your sons down the line. They already feel guilty probably that they didn't do anything to prevent it. I would not try to talk to them outside of the therapist office. Let a professional handle this so you and your husband don't do more damage. Hopefully family therapy can help you all hash out some safety rules and boundaries. The ideal thing would be to sit down with your kids and let them know that what happened is something you and dad will deal with separately, with your own therapist, and that you're also all going to go to talk with someone since they heard it. [/quote]
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