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Reply to "What to do when kids overhear one spouse pushing the other one?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP I'm so sorry. I know you're trying to figure out what to say to the kids but I think you need to stop and do some self-assessment first. What happens next in your marriage is going to dictate how to approach your kids. I recognize that you may not know what your next step is. But if you and your husband recognize that the dynamic you have is not sustainable (bc it's not), and you're going to change it, that's one message. And your DH should be on board. If he's not, or can't admit what happened here, that's a different message, because it means a separation may be forthcoming. FYI your description of him pulling you which "resulted" in you falling to the floor, etc., reads as an attempt at minimization. Your kids are hearing your husband physically abuse you. It's terrifying. Poster upthread blowing this off is wrong.[/quote]
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