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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP. This is a lot. Do your kids have a therapist? It seems they should. Even if this has not happened "in years" it's still likely something they've noticed and was burned into their brains if they saw or heard it happen previously. In the immediate, I think you and your DH need to talk with them about it again and be specific. I think it their imaginations will run wild unless you discuss it directly. Maybe you can sit them down and say "During our argument we both got very angry. In our anger we used our hands which is not how people should resolve arguments" or something like that? When you say you apologized for fighting, did you apologize to the kids or to each other in front of them? I think the latter is more powerful/important here. [/quote]
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