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Reply to "Please help me understand what 'settling' is."
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[quote=Anonymous]Settling means marrying someone who you are not enthusiastic about marrying because you want to be married or start a family. Frequently it is confused with realizing you are unhappy 10-15 years in because you didn't work on your relationship and it has eroded, although there is surely a venn diagram there somewhere. I don't think settling has anything to do with looks or finances necessarily, it has to do with what is important to the person. So if that chubby loser you so clearly dislike is actually a wonderful human who she loves passionately, then she is not settling. But I do think that someone who posts long rants about not settling on social media likely has some projection issues they are covering up. [/quote]
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