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[quote=Anonymous]I’m going through a very hard time right now, perhaps the hardest time of my life. One of my closest friends has really shocked and disappointed me in that she has completely disappeared. I would never have expected that of her in a million years and I have to admit that it’s hurt me. I’ve always been a very independent person and I’m not accustomed to being or feeling vulnerable or “needy” and I hate it.

To be honest, I don’t actually “need” anything, either practical or emotional. I’m not necessarily wanting to talk about things and I don’t need meals or anything else for that matter. But a quick text to let me know she’s thinking of me every now and then would be nice. I just don’t understand her complete lack of care; it is unimaginable to me in that I’ve never disappeared on a friend like that and never would.

I think because I’m vulnerable right now this is getting to me more than it normally would and I’m kind of letting it wash over me and affect how I’m coping or thinking about my situation. How can I snap out of it and just let it go and focus on the people who have shown up (and even pleasantly surprised me)?

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