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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think it is that uncommon, I think it is just less visible. I have several friends in their 50s+ who never returned to work. My one caution to you is make sure you have your own interests and passions and ways to spend your time that isn't only centered on raising your family. Empty nest hits hard and can be hard on a marriage in some cases, but those who did well seemed to have interests of their own. [b]You may want to consider a post-nup agreement depending on the state you are in and community property rules. Have also seen women get hit hard during mid-life divorce on retirement accounts.[/b] [/quote] Fundamentally, you do what is best for you and your family. If this is what works, great! I'm glad you have the option to do that. And, about +1000 on the bolded above. While you're not working outside the home, you should have your own retirement accounts and ensure that in the (hopefully) unlikely event of divorce, you are walking away with a monetary amount equivalent to the work you contributed.[/quote]
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