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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ask him? How shoukd he spend his time while you are away? Hopefully, it's just middle age hormones making you jealous. If he isn't a cheater, he isn't cheating.[/quote]

I guess I could just do that.  I worry he'll think I don't trust him.  Many years ago I got very jealous about what I saw as flirtatious behavior toward one of the au pairs we had, and I ended up feeling like I made a big deal over nothing.[/quote]

Oh, wait a minute! Did you witness or imagine you saw the flirting? How did he react? Are you always jealous, or only when something is up with dh?[/quote]

It was just the way he was around her especially at the end of the year before she moved out, it seemed too familiar to me.  I can't really describe anything concrete.  But I talked to him about it and he made me see that there was nothing there, I was just overreacting.  She ended up staying in the area and we remain good friends and have her over for dinner occasionally, although that will probably happen less now that DS is off at college.   I'm not usually a jealous person. [/quote]

You make it sounds as if he was gaslighting you.
Is your gut uncomfortable with his language tutor??[/quote]

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