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[quote=Anonymous]Folks, ease up on the guy.  He said he's Asian and followed his wife to the US.  English is his second language.  I've known many Asians who learned English as adults who communicate like this guy.

OP, you do need to simplify your life.  Start by talking to your friends and taking a break for a few months.  Let them know that once you get your life settled down again you'll be in touch again.  Work with your wife.  I would recommend counseling.  Find out what she expects from you.  For your side, you need to stop hiding things from her.  You need to be open with her.  Second, you need to adjust the way you interact with your female friends.  If you go out as a group, you should sit next to your wife, not your friends.  You need to make sure that your wife feels a part of the group rather  than just sitting and watching you with your friends.  Then you need to have her calm down and when something bothers her, she needs to talk with you calmly instead of just exploding and taking out her anger on others (like turning over the table).  You each need to be able to make some changes, but you will probably need a counselor to help you, at least at first.[/quote]

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