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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please do get therapy, please. And in the meantime, please try to be kind to yourself. There are plenty of other reasons why babies are born early--coincidence does not mean causation. He still could have been born that early even if you'd never had an abortion, or if you'd been a virgin until you were married, or even if he were immaculately conceived. There are just too many variables and you can't possibly make the connection between any of them in a situation like this. Being a new mom is hard enough. Please get some help so you don't make it even harder on yourself, unnecessarily. To 12:14, I doubt the OP will say it, but I will. [b]Screw you and your self-righteousness[/b].[/quote] What are you talking about? Don't we all make bad choices? Feeling guilty is not the way to go. Owning it and facing the consequences is the first step to acceptance and healing. What's wrong with you? There's nothing OP can do about her past but the future is in her hands now. This baby is here to make her grow and to be loved, not to bring her guilt and sadness. BTW she said she's seeking therapy already. Can't you read?[/quote]
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