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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry to ride on OP's coattails...but decades ago my brother asked me to be executor. At the time I made sense (I was the one without kids, lived nearby, considered trustworthy). Well, since then, I had a kid, and moved six hours  away. Importantly, he/his wife NEVER cooperated with my requests to provide me with even basic information (name of their lawyer, name of their banks, location of will/mortgages, house key, etc). The latter always really annoyed me, since I am responsible.

Anyway, last year my brother died, and I guess everything passed to his wife. (Whew). But I fear I am still executor. I want NOTHING to do with that job. But know no one else in my family probably does either.

I feel guilty telling my SIL NO, but now that my brother is gone, don't feel AS guilty. She is very close to other older women in her building. Plus, she has still NEVER told me squat about the details I would need to take action. She is in her 70's and not super well (though no serious diagnosis). Please send advice/suggestions. Thanks. [/quote]

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