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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 44 and feel the same. It is really hard. I thought I found something last year, but he got serious, told his family, and broke up with me (they did not approve of a divorced woman with kids). I was floored…did not think he would tell his family. I have no intention of getting married again. He got married shortly afterwards

Other men who just want sex I am not that into. Other men want something serious. I am kind of seeing someone now but not sure where he lies really. I want something long term but not marriage or cohabitation. It’s hard. [/quote]

If he got married shortly after ending things with you then he planned this all along. I’m from a conservative culture and it is known and understood that man are manipulate and lie and use western women to have a good time, they don’t play with women from their cultures because those are respectable and for marriage (there are exceptions of course).

Why were you disappointed that they didn’t want a divorced women if you only wanted FWB?[/quote]

Because it seemed long term and we discussed that; and I asked several times if he wanted to get married because I don’t date men who have marriage as a goal at this point in life. He could have married before but did not want to…he told me that. He also said he was no longer interested in getting married early on. I do not want just a FWB. I want a long term sex partner I can do things with. I do not want family involved or marriage or cohabitation.[/quote]

You do not want FWB, you want a monogamous LTR.  With no cohabitation and marriage.  Sorry, you will not get that with young guys or guys your age. The old men who expect you to be a 'nurse with a purse' are your target demographic.  Age range of 67+. [/quote]

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