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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Personally yes, when we vacation with our parents, we do pay for them. This certainly depends on your family’s finances of course. As for the visits, if they aren’t reciprocated, I would slow down the visits to them. Don’t host the dog. I have two - love dogs - that’s ridiculous and what dog sitters and boarding is for.[/quote] We were going to pay for their flights, but hadn't yet made ours. She canceled before we could even offer. I agree with you, they go on multiple vacations a year and yet it feels personal that they cancel their trip with us and I'm betting they plan some other trip instead.[/quote] If you want her to attend, make clear at the time you discuss Disney that you will pay for her flights, if you are willing to do so.[/quote] At the time we booked there was no mention of money and we assumed we were all paying for ourselves. We even got them into the heavily discounted Disney hotel that only we can get reservations at. She only brought up money the last time we spoke about it 6 months after the reservations were made. [/quote]
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