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[quote=Anonymous]Yes I know PP that you are right- completely! I know I’m in the wrong snd trying hard to be understanding. And yes I hate how I feel like - it’s “my” etc.  I make a lot more than him and all these special purchases come from my bonuses. I’m also 10 years younger and he’s 59 so wants to retire soon. So I have told him I want to reduce our debt and the things we own snd the stress- I have been worried because we have three kids starting college over next 2-8 years. 
  He works corporate America and most of his co- workers get offered packages around 60. So I have told him I’m so nervous to have all our income come from me and have to pay all our expenses snd college. What if I lost my job?? I’m too old to want to start over. 
    That’s why I save so much. I want to pay for kids college - we want to pay- and I want to slow down work over next 5-8 years to enjoy my kids/ I work all the time. 
    And now I feel like I’m on that gerbil treadmill for rest of my life. But I know that my attitude is totally wrong to blame him.
   
   
   
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