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[quote=Anonymous]Think about it this way. It IS because of you. You and your child are the motivator your husband needed to assert boundaries between himself and his parents If he wanted to buy their house, marrying you wouldn't have changed his mind about that. If he really thought going there on Christmas was important, he would have gone regardless of what you wanted or didn't want. It was probably a pretty big deal for your husband to get to be his own person. You don't sound controlling, and it is reasonable, what he has asked. They have to blame someone. They are blaming the person NOT part of the enmeshment, rather than the person who wants to leave it. It's easier for them this way.[/quote]
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