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[quote=Anonymous]I feel you OP. I really do. I've been there! You're a scapegoat and they need one in order to process the reality that their son has his own family and needs to prioritize them. Their family dynamic has changed forever and they are grieving that. Unfortunately, they're not emotionally equipped to deal with it in a particularly adult way and you'll just have to stand your ground and accept that they may always act this way.

It sounds like you and your husband have set boundaries, which is incredibly healthy. As long as you and your husband are on the same page, you'll be fine. Obviously there are benefits to keeping a decent relationship with his parents for both your husband and son but it's okay if you're not super close with them. It's exhausting. I'd love a warm, loving relationship with my in-laws but it's not in the cards and I just take what they can give (and stay close to my husband's other extended family who I love very much). I really hope they come to terms with things and can feel happiness for you and your family some day. Take care![/quote]

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