Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "If I Divorce My Husband, I Will Be All Alone"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Please go into therapy. Alone sounds much better than this. Plus, you have no guarantee on the future. Putting up with him now does not guarantee he will be there when you get old. My mom put up with a lot of crap from my dad and then he divorced her when he was 70yo. And get a dog for company. Really. You can also volunteer or join meet-ups. You need to build up your confidence because this is beating you up. And your children have no reasonable family life now. Really. I am in my mid-50s and left an abusive marriage 25 years ago. Everyone told me I would find someone else and I didn't. So sometimes I feel sorry for myself because I am alone now that the kids grew up and moved out. But I have a terrific relationship with them (because they respect me - as yours will if you stand up for yourself) and I am not anyone's victim anymore. You can do this! You have one life and using it to stay with someone who makes your life miserable is just demoralizing. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
