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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you not been listening to or living with your spouse for the past year? You can't think of anything s/he wants or would be able to use?[/quote]

Not OP but PP. Some people, including some spouses, get whatever they want for themselves, or truly do not use much "stuff." I know this is hard for some folks to believe but it's true. My brother and SIL have always been difficult to shop for in any meaningful way so we get them a lot of books related to stuff they like and then a lot of food gifts, because they truly do get themselves whatever they want or need to use.[/quote]

Do you live with them? Do you see them every day? This isn’t the same as your spouse. Sorry. If you can’t some up with ONE item to buy your spouse you aren’t paying attention, or you are just lazy.

I mean…my DH buys what he wants. But I can think of 5 things I can buy him immediately.[/quote]

Uh, I can find plenty to buy my spouse, sure, but was noting that there really are people who (especially if they do the "there's nothing I want or need" dance all year long) are hard to buy for. Period.

Do you actually have any suggestions of specific gifts for OP, or are you here just to tell us how perfectly you can anticipate your own spouse's wants, and to judge OP as "lazy" for not being as perfect as you are--?

I've made a few suggestions above but am not sure why [i]you're[/i] here, other than to preen about your perfection and to make OP feel crappy. Such holiday cheer.[/quote]

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